Category: Alpha Male Traits

You can make any girl fall madly in love with you. The only thing you need is an unshakable confidence. Acquire this trait and no girl will be out of your league. In this article I will reveal what is so attractive about confidence, and how to gain the self-assurance that will help you attract any girl you desire. But first you need to understand…

 

What is confidence?

Confidence means you are sure of yourself. You know that, no matter what, you will succeed. When you fail you don’t let it bother you. Instead, you learn from your mistakes, and you rebuild yourself from the ashes. This attitude makes you and unbeatable man.

 

Why are women attracted to confidence so madly?

A confident man is a leader. He is a man of action, and he is always in control. Women love him because he has an attitude that says, “I make my life”, instead of one that says, “Life happens to me.”

It doesn’t matter what feminists say, women want to be treated like women, and they want you to behave like a man. Women are hardwired to look for a man who can be a great provider, and when needed a good protector. If you display confidence, they will assume you are that guy.

It’s a matter of evolution. So, even those girls who say they can protect and provide for themselves, are attracted to confident guys because their subconscious mind makes them feel safe around them.

 

How do you gain confidence?

Now we know that all you need to make any girl fall madly in love with you is confidence. But, how do you gain it? Simple, learn to fail and don’t care.

Let me give you an example; let’s say you are learning to drive a bike. On your first ride you won’t feel very confident on it. But with time, after a lot of failing, you will become better. And when your skills improve, your confidence will increase with them.

It is very important to learn not to care about failing. If you take it personally you will develop some traumas that will be very hard to heal. Let’s go back to our bike example. If you fall from the bike and feel humiliated and dumb, you won’t go back to the bike and you will never learn.

If, on the other hand, you see failure as a natural part of your learning process. And you don’t let occasional setbacks affect your self-esteem, you will go back an eventually become a master with the bicycle, and you will exude confidence on it.

So, all you need to acquire an unshakable confidence, and the girl you love with it, is to dare to fail and don’t care.

If you want to know the biggest secret women are hiding about what turns them on, watch this presentation from my friend Josh Pellicer.

Being rejected by women is a painful experience, especially when the girl who is rejecting you is the one you love.

In this article I am going to reveal some of the most common reasons why women are not attracted to some guys. Learn this common mistakes and you will increase your odds of attracting the girl of your dreams.

 

#1. – You are not confident

When everything is said and done, the number one trait women find attractive in a man is confidence. If you behave like a confident man, women will assume that you have strong genes. They will also believe that you can provide them the safety they so desperately crave for.

It doesn’t matter if you are an old, broke, or ugly man, display confidence and women will be crazy for you.

 

#2. – You don’t know how to connect with her on a deep (sexual) level

Girls only fall for those guys they are sexually attracted to. If the girl you love likes you, but she doesn’t feel aroused when she is around you, it means you are trapped in the friend-zone.

Don’t worry; there is a way out. One fast an easy way to create sexual tension with a girl is by looking her straight into her eyes.

Gaze her eyes in a sensual way and her body will start producing some chemical responses that will make her assume she is attracted to you. I know it sounds simple, but it works every time.

 

#3. – You don’t take care of your appearance

You don’t need to be a naturally good-looking man to attract the girl you love. What you need to do is to make her perceive you as an attractive male. And you achieve this by learning the rules of fashion, and by showing your best version at all times.

The way in which you behave is also part of your appearance. You should learn to behave like a king, if you want the world to perceive you like one. Learn anything you can about protocol, and etiquette.

You should also be aware that women talk. This means that if you fart, or burp, in front of any woman the girl you love will find out and your desirability will decrease. If on the other hand, you behave like a gentleman all the time, other women will be attracted to you, and when your love prospect hears about it she will want you too.

 

#4. – You are boring

Nothing kills attraction faster than routine. You need to fight boredom at all cost. And by fighting boredom I don’t mean watching TV, or playing video games, all day. Go out and live your life! If you learn to live with passion, and adventure, any girl will fall in love with you.

 

One final thought…

To make a girl fall in love with you, you need to be able to affect her emotions. And you will only be able to influence other people’s emotions when you learn how to control yours. So, pay attention to your thoughts and feelings cause they make your life.

If you want to know the biggest secret women are hiding about what turns them on, watch this presentation from my friend Josh Pellicer.

In this article I am going to reveal 3 things that girls find irresistible in guys. Learn them and you will be able to get any girl’s attention.

 

#1. – You need to be good with children

Women assume that confident men have strong genes. That’s why they feel so attracted to them. It’s a principle of evolution. They subconsciously assume that mating with this type of man will give their offspring the best chances of survival.

If you are not a confident man don’t worry, there is another way to make women assume their offspring will be safe with you. You need to be good with children. Yes, as simple as that! Women are attracted to guys who are good with children.

Again, this is a principle of evolution. It is something that is programmed in their subconscious mind. So, even women who claim they don’t want to have children are attracted to guys who can relate with them.

 

#2. – Women are addicted to surprises

Women are addicted to surprises. So, you can keep a girl attracted to you by surprising her on a regular basis. The important thing you need to understand is that she shouldn’t expect it. If she expects a surprise from you everyday it’s no longer a surprise, it’s a boring routine. Be careful and don’t take the thrill out of it.

Another important thing you should know is that you don’t need to buy expensive things, or plan extraordinary activities. Remember, the only thing that matters is that it should be unexpected. Learn to play with her emotions. A candy can be more effective than a diamond necklace, if you give it to her in the right way and in the right moment.

 

#3. – Develop a good sense of humor

Guys who have a great sense of humor are chick-magnets, even the ugly ones. Learn to make a woman laugh and she will become addicted to you. But, you need to be careful. If you become a goofy guy you will annoy her.

There is a big difference between a sexy sense of humor, and behaving like an immature child. One makes women sexually attracted to you, the other gets you trapped in the friend-zone, at least.

Study the points above stated, and put them into action. You will be amazed with the results. And you will realize that getting girls’ attention is not as hard as most guys believe it is.

If you want to know the biggest secret women are hiding about what turns them on, watch this presentation from my friend Josh Pellicer.

If you want to become a wealthy man you need to feel like a wealthy man, and the fastest easiest way to achieve this is through clothes. Learn to dress like the rich, and you will become rich.

When you hear the phrase dress for success what do you think about? Do you think about getting a power suit? Or maybe a wardrobe that will change the way in which the world perceives you?

Yes, it’s true, dressing in the right way will impress everyone who comes into contact with you, and it will also affect your feelings and the way in which you behave. But, in this article, when I say dress for success I am not only talking about style. I mean learn to buy clothes, and spend your money, in a wise way.

This will simplify your life and help you build a reserve of money that will lead you to financial freedom.

Statics show that most people tend to use only 20% of the clothes they own. So that other 80% is just a waste of money, and space. Think about it, don’t you have a favorite shirt that you like to use all the time?

You can build a complete wardrobe with around 30 pieces, and by purchasing clothes in a wise way you will be able to purchase great quality clothes. This proves you don’t need to become a cheap man to learn to spend your money wisely; you can save money and enjoy luxury as well.

This is a list of items you may want to include in your wardrobe, of course these are only guidelines, you have the final decision:

 

Bottoms

  • A good pair of jeans
  • 3 pair of casual pants
  • 3 shorts

Tops

  • 3 Oxford button downs
  • 3 pattern button ups
  • 3 t-shirts
  • 3 cashmere sweaters

Outwear

  • A light jacket
  • A coat

Shoes

  • One pair of boots
  • One pair of sneakers
  • One pair of leather casual shoes

Formal clothes

  • A navy blazer
  • 3 dress shirts
  • One charcoal suit
  • One gray, or white, suit (optional)
  • 2 ties
  • One pair of dress shoes, preferably black or dark brown

Extras

  • A rain jacket
  • One pair of rain boots

Unless you work as a TV host and you need one different outfit for every day of the year, in which case I advice you to rent your wardrobe, this list will help you show your best look every time.

And, since you are buying things that you are actually going to use, you can purchase high-class items. This way you will be sure they will last longer, you will save a lot of money, and you will look and feel like a millionaire. The only thing you need to remember is to buy only those things that you can afford.

Learn the secrets of the rich and live a life of choice and freedom beyond your wildest dreams. Checkout “The Money In Your Mind” program, this will change the way you relate with money forever.

One of the most common questions guys ask me is: “why can’t I find the type of woman I want”. The problem is that when I ask them to describe me that type of woman in detail almost no one gives me a straight answer.

 

Most guys don’t know what they want, and then they wonder why they can’t find that perfect woman.

 

Yes, almost all the guys that come to me for help agree that they want a gorgeous girl. But, when I ask them about what type of personality she should have, what should she be passionate about, or if they want a serious or a casual relationship, almost no one knows what to answer.

You can have any girl you desire, but first you need to know what do you want.

 

If you are not sure about the type of girl you want…

Most guys don’t know what they want, but they know what they don’t want. If you can’t describe your perfect girl in detail you should use the power of contrast to find the main traits that you are looking for.

For example, if cheating is a topic that you are particularly worried about, you know that loyalty is an important trait for you. If you love to eat, you may want to find a girl who knows how to cook.

The important thing you need to remember is that you should avoid abstract definitions, and be as detailed as possible. It’s easier to attract women when you are clear about what you want, so don’t underestimate the importance of this simple exercise.

Let me give you an example of the value of knowing what you want in detail. Picture this: a man goes to his boss and asks him for a rise. His boss gives him a one-cent raise and sends him back to work. This man was not specific. Next time he should have a figure in mind.

If the only thing you are looking for in a girl is physical beauty then write it down, it’s OK. You can have whatever you want, but then don’t complain when you get exactly what you asked for.

In my experience relationships that are based in more than purely physical attraction are more rewarding, and tend to last longer, even when they are casual relationships.

Be careful for what you wish for because you will get exactly what you desire.

If you want to know the biggest secret women are hiding about what turns them on, watch this presentation from my friend Josh Pellicer.

 

The secrets on how to impress women are hardly esoteric; in fact they are quite simple, so simple that most guys don’t believe in them. I dare you to test them. Give them one chance and you will be amazed with the results.

In this article I want to show you how to impress any girl you meet. By the time you finish reading you will learn some things about yourself, and you will realize that no girl is out of your league.

 

#1. – Just be yourself, yes it’s simple but it works!

Many guys believe that who they are is not enough to attract gorgeous women, so they act. They behave in the way they believe women want them to behave. The problem is that women have a sense that allows them to see when a man is lying.

Yes, one of the best pieces of advice anyone can give you to impress women is “You just need to be yourself.” But, what does it mean to be yourself?

First, it means you need to feel comfortable in your own skin. Learn to believe in yourself, and no girl will be out of your league. You are a worthy man; you have everything you need to attract any girl you desire. The only thing you need is some confidence.

Second, you need to understand that there is only one constant in life: change. If you don’t force yourself to go up, life will take you down. Being yourself means becoming the best man you can be. You should make an effort to improve everyday. Don’t waste your time, live every day as if it’s the last day of your life.

Don’t say through you actions, “this is the peak of my life, take it or leave”, or no girl will be attracted to you. Instead say, “This is just a part of me, a man full of potential”. I give you my word; women will be throwing themselves to you.

 

#2. – Learn to read women

Sometimes communicating with women is frustrating. Men use words to say things, while women want you to read their minds. They love to play “the guess what I am thinking game”. The good news is that if you learn to play this game effectively you will always have the upper hand.

The secret here is to understand that females don’t speak through words they speak through actions. Learn to listen to their behavior, to their actions and reactions, and you will turn into a chick-magnet. You will impress every woman you meet.

If you want to know the biggest secret women are hiding about what turns them on, watch this presentation from my friend Josh Pellicer.

 

Let’s face it; for most guys it is difficult to attract women. When somehow they manage to get the attention of a girl they say: “I’ve got lucky.” Which pretty much describes how most guys see the whole relationships game.

For most guys attracting women is a matter of luck. They assume they are powerless, that attraction is run by chance, and as a result they don’t even try to learn the rules of the game.

In this article I am going to show you some simple principles that will help you make women want you. I hope that when you finish reading this article you will claim your power back, and stop relying on luck.

 

#1. – Become an alpha male

Alpha males know what they want and they take action to achieve their goals. They don’t rely on luck, because they build their own luck. Women are helplessly attracted to those guys who take charge of their lives.

To make women want you, you need to exhibit the qualities of a leader. You have to exude power and confidence. It doesn’t matter what challenges life brings, you should always be in control, or at least look like you are in control.

Women are hardwired to look for strong genes; it’s a matter of evolution. They assume that mating with a male with strong genes will give their offspring the best chances of survival.

As a general rule the leader of the pack, the alpha male, is the man with the strongest genes. So, in short, to make women want you make them believe that you have strong genes by behaving like an alpha male.

 

#2. – Be a mysterious man

Women love challenges. If you can intrigue a woman she will become obsessed with you. The harder it is for a girl to read a man the more she will want him.

So, learn to send mixed signals. Never show females all your cards. Learn to talk with ambiguity, and don’t share your feelings with them. Make it impossible for them to figure you out, but give them small clues to keep them interested.

 

#3. – Keep a playful mood at all times

Keeping a playful mood at all times will make women perceive you as a confident, and powerful, male. A positive attitude will make your body language send all the right signals and will have a huge impact on the perception women have about you. Therefore, don’t take this lightly.

If you want to know the biggest secret women are hiding about what turns them on, watch this presentation from my friend Josh Pellicer.

On May 11th 2007 I suffered a severe accident that almost killed me. This near encounter with death had a drastic impact on my personality. I learned to be present, and to live in the moment.

This shift in my attitude had a positive effect on the way in which I related with women, and if you read this article I am sure you will enjoy the same positive results.

 

No girl is out of your league as long as you understand…

The first thing you need to understand is that most guys fail with women because they live on autopilot mode most of the time. They don’t know how to be present and, as a result, they are not able to connect with females on a deep level.

Guys who live in their heads lack the observation skills needed to know what does a girl need, and how to give it to her.

Women talk to you all the time through non-verbal channels. They tell you how they are feeling, and they even give you clues on how to win their heart, the only thing you need to do is to be present, and pay attention.

For example, when a girl is interested in you she will lean in close, and her body will be pointed in your direction. If, on the other hand, her arms are crossed, she is sitting back, and her body is pointing away from you; you should work harder to win her attention.

 

If she shows no signs of interest…

If a girl shows no interest in you, don’t worry. By being present you can get it. Learning to live in the moment will make your body language send strong positive signals to the females you interact with.

They will perceive you as a powerful, strong, and confident male. And, if done correctly, they will also feel sexual tension, which I am sure you know is essential to make any woman feel attracted to you.

The skills needed to succeed with women come from the inside; you can’t fake them. So, instead of wasting your time on learning cheesy pick up lines, magic tricks, or goofy jokes, just learn to live in the moment and enjoy life.

This little shift in your attitude will make any girl you meet feel a deep connection with you, almost instantly. You will be sending the right type of vibe, and you will know how to feel the vibes they send to you.

If you want to know the biggest secret women are hiding about what turns them on, watch this presentation from my friend Josh Pellicer.

I know the feeling. It is horrible to be attracted to a girl who can only see you as a good friend. Don’t worry; you are not doomed to live in the friend-zone. There are a lot of things you can do to make her see you as a potential sexual partner.

By the time you finish reading this article you will have a new understanding of females’ psychology, and why some guys seem to fall into the friend-zone trap every single time.

 

You need to build Sexual tension…

Females enjoy spending time around their male friends, but they crave for the company of those guys they are sexually attracted to.

All you need to do to make females see you as a potential sexual partner is develop a strong sexual presence. It’s a vibe you project to the world. Your feelings and beliefs affect the way in which the world perceives you. If you feel like a sensual man, girls will feel aroused just by your presence.

Develop the right core of beliefs and your body language will make any girl feel sexually attracted to you. You will start moving and behaving in a way that will send strong sexual messages to the females you interact with.

You will also need to learn how to touch women in a sensual way. If you touch a girl in the right moment, and in the right way she will feel helplessly attracted to you.

Again, the way in which you feel influences the effectiveness of your touch. If you feel like a sexy man, your touch will make any girl crazy for you.

 

It’s what your body says that matters…

Most guys don’t understand that the bigger part of what they say doesn’t come out of their mouths. It comes from non-verbal channels. If you say one thing with your mouth, and another with your body you won’t get the desired results.

For example, your eyes are a powerful non-verbal tool. If you are insecure you won’t be able to hold eye contact with any girl. And no matter what you say she won’t feel attracted to you.

On the other hand, once you start feeling like a sensual man your eyes will develop a power that will make females crazy for you. You will be able to look directly into girl’s eyes and their body will start producing some chemical responses that will make them feel aroused.

Is there more to it than that? Of course there is! You need to become a guy who lives with passion and in his own terms, a guy who is the leader of the pack, and who shows women that he can be a great provider, and if needed a good protector.

There are a lot of things you need to learn to become a chick-magnet. But the main thing you need to understand to avoid the friend-zone is that you should make a girl feel sexual tension around you.

If you want to know the biggest secret women are hiding about what turns them on, watch this presentation from my friend Josh Pellicer.

Before I show you how to keep your girl addicted to you I want to tell you who I am, and what qualifies me to give advice about women.

My name is Luigi Carucci, and on May 11th 2007 I was near a big industrial alcohol container while it exploded. Half of my body was severely injured, and I thought I was going to die.

This near encounter with death made me change my perspective of life, and the way in which I related with people, especially with women.

My new view of the world had a huge impact on how women perceived me. Suddenly, they were chasing me and not the other way around, as it used to be.

Physically I am almost the same man I was before my accident. Yes, I’ve lost some weight, but other than that, the only difference in my appearance is now half of my body is filled with scars. Fortunately, this doesn’t seem to be a problem to females. This made me realize that looks are not as important to women as they are to guys.

So, now that you know me, I want to share some of the things I’ve learned that will help you make your girl addicted to you.

 

#1. – Don’t behave like a child

As a general rule, females like boys but love men. Women feel an addictive attraction to mature men, while the boys live trapped in the friend-zone. As long as you behave like a confident, powerful and adventurous man, women will be helplessly attracted to you.

Show them that you live in your own terms. You know what you want and you are going to take action to achieve your dreams. Men are creatures of action, while boys are passive individuals. Females want a guy who takes care of them, not a child they need to take care of.

 

#2. – Give them space

To make a girl addicted to you, make her enjoy the time she spends with you as much as possible, and in the climax leave. Give them time, and space, so she can miss you. Let her come to you, this will force her to work for your attention, and as a result she will want you more.

Only confident males are able to give space to their women, especially when they are drop-death gorgeous. Giving space to females will show them you have rock-solid confidence, and this will raise your social value.

 

#3. – Pay attention to her needs

Know her needs and you will make her addicted to you. The secret here is that you need to use your powers of observation. In other words, listen to her actions, not to her words. Watch her physical reactions. What makes her aroused? What makes her nervous? What makes her sad, happy, etc.?

Knowing how to affect her feelings in an effective way will give you the upper hand. Become a keen observer and you will become her drug of choice.

My accident made me realize that females are attracted to guys who live with passion and in their own terms. I will die some day, that’s a fact. So, I live every day as if it’s the last day of my life. Internalize this attitude and you will become the fearless man girls get addicted to.

If you want to know the biggest secret women are hiding about what turns them on, watch this presentation from my friend Josh Pellicer.

I am one of those guys who experienced an extreme shift in their lives after they lived a near-death event. I know, it sounds like a cliché, but it’s true.

On May 11th 2007 I was near a big industrial alcohol container while it exploded. As a result half of my body was injured with third degree burns.

The pain I experienced from the injuries was so intense that I needed morphine shots to release it. But the real problem was my inner pain. A pain no drug could heal. My near-death experience made me realize I was wasting my life.

Like most guys, before my accident, I was living my life on default. I was trapped on a boring job, and I was working my ass off, just to make ends meet. I wasn’t dating the type of women I desired because in my mind I was no special, and I had nothing valuable to offer.

I believed that hot girls only dated rich, handsome, and successful guys, and I was not one of them. Of course, all these limiting beliefs scared girls away from me.

But, something funny happens to those guys who meet death, and make her their friend. They start appreciating life more. They realize that most of those things they complain about are not important. Suddenly big problems become small, and they acquire a fearless attitude. As a result, they become irresistible to females.

 

Yes, I am one of those guys…

Don’t worry, you don’t need to live a near-death experience to acquire this attitude and become a modern-day Casanova. You just need to realize that your days in this world are limited, and you should make the most out of them.

Think about it, all the money in the world can’t buy you a minute of life. Your time is priceless. Don’t trade it for peanuts. Fill your moments with fun, adventure, and excitement.

It doesn’t matter who you are or what is your current situation. You can become a modern-day Casanova almost instantly by this little shift in your attitude: live as if it is the last day of your life (who knows, maybe it is!).

If you don’t experience the results with women you desire it is because of a lack of conviction. Your body language projects what you feel and believe. So, any doubt you may be holding in your mind will affect how people perceive you.
This attitude should come from your heart, you can’t fake it.

If you want to know the biggest secret women are hiding about what turns them on, watch this presentation from my friend Josh Pellicer.

There was a time in my life when everything was just wrong. I wasn’t dating the type of women I desired, just because I didn’t believe I was good enough for them. I was trapped in a boring job, since I thought it was my only vehicle for surviving. And my health wasn’t the best either; I was stressed, depressed, and over-weighted.

I know this is a sad and depressing picture but, the truth is, this is the life most guys are living. In this article I want to share my story, and show you how you can be, do, and have whatever you want.

Once you acquire the right attitude you will start attracting women, like bees to honey. You will realize no girl is out of your league, because this minor shift in your attitude will turn you into a modern-day Casanova.

 

The day everything changed for me…

On May 11th 2007 I was near a big alcohol container while it exploded. Half of my body was severely injured, and I thought I was going to die. The moment I saw my whole life passing through my eyes one question popped into my mind: Was I happy?

Sadly the answer was: NO.

I had enough time to think about my life during the year I spent in the hospital. And I made a firm resolution: “I will learn to enjoy life, and I will live it in my own terms”.

I was amazed to see how people, especially women, reacted to my new attitude. Women were throwing themselves to me everywhere I went. And guys saw me as their leader; they were craving for my advice.

Since then, my life’s goal has, not only, been to enjoy life as much as possible, but also to transform, as many guys as I can, into the men they deserve to be. And I mainly achieve this goal through the best piece of advice I have

 

The big secret…

Embrace death. The only thing you can be 100% sure is that you are going to die. You don’t know when, or how. But you know the day will come. So, learn to embrace this reality. Stop wasting your time. Stop agonizing about superficial stuff. If something will not be important 10 years from now, it’s not worth wasting your energy on it today.

If you learn to enjoy life, and become authentically a happy man, you will exude power and confidence. You won’t have to learn pick up lines, or cheap mind tricks, because women will be throwing themselves to you without you even trying.

If you want to know the biggest secret women are hiding about what turns them on, watch this presentation from my friend Josh Pellicer.

When you see a gorgeous girl your body reacts. You experience some chemical, and physical, reactions that increase your sexual energy. Of course, you can’t just let this energy accumulate. You need to release it. But, you don’t want to waste it either. So, you need to learn how to use it to improve your life.

You can be, do, and have anything you want; you just need to learn how to guide your energy through the right channels. In this article I am going to show you how your sexual energy can help you become the man you deserve to be.

 

#1. – Accumulating sexual energy is not healthy

Sexual energy is not like money; you can’t save it. If you let it accumulate it will reach a point where it will explode. And in the meanwhile your anxiety levels will increase, you will lose control of your emotions, and as a result your body language will send negative signals. Women will see you as a needy guy, and people will see you as insecure, this will make your powers of influence disappear.

 

#2. – Don’t waste it; use it!

OK, we need to release the energy; there is no question about it. But, how we release that energy makes all the difference in the world. Let’s say you take the easy road and you masturbate. All that energy will disappear as fast as it appeared. And not only your sexual desires will go, your creativity, your drive to work, and your powers of concentration will go with them.

Don’t get me wrong I have nothing against masturbation, but you shouldn’t use it as a first alternative. You can use it to release any residual amount of energy, but only after you have used the bigger part to help you achieve your dreams.

You can use the sexual energy to help you set, and visualize, goals. Every time you start accumulating sexual energy visualize your goal. This will help you implant the idea in your subconscious mind, and once your subconscious accepts and idea it becomes a reality.

Ideas are implanted in the subconscious by feeling and repetition, and sexual desire is one of the strongest feelings a man can feel. Using this technique constantly will help you achieve anything you want in life.

You can have any girl you desire, all the money you need, and all the freedom you deserve. You just need to learn how to implant ideas in your subconscious mind with the help of your sexual energy.

If you want to know the biggest secret women are hiding about what turns them on, watch this presentation from my friend  Josh Pellicer.

The big truths in life are simple, but powerful. In this article I want to reveal the truth most guys don’t know about the mating game. Apply this principles and no girl will be out of your league.

 

#1. – Raise your standards

To become a chick-magnet you need to display the number one trait of the alpha male: confidence. You need to raise your standards. You are a king, behave like one. You deserve only the best. This attitude alone will make females crazy for you.

Guys who have low self-esteem always settle for second best. They take what they believe they can have, not what they know they deserve. They are miserable, and their body language displays all the wrong signals. In other words, they behave like losers, and as a consequence the world perceives them as losers. Of course, hot girls will never be attracted to losers.

 

#2. – Make them qualify themselves to you

Raising your standards will change your attitude. You will stop acting like a needy guy, and women will work for your attention, not the other way around. People give more value to the things when they need to work for them. If you make people work for your respect, your social value will automatically raise and, as a result, your attractiveness.

You should not rest your self-worth on external things, like money, or looks. This will decrease your power. It doesn’t matter if you are a poor, old, and ugly man. As long as you are the only source of your power, and you believe in yourself, you can have anything you want in life.

Learn to display confidence and power, no matter what, and you will become a chick-magnet.

 

#3. – Know how to make them desire you.

There is a crucial element in the mating game: sexual tension. Women will only be attracted to you if they see you as a potential sexual partner. Again, it’s not about looks, it’s about your attitude.

If you feel desperate, and horny, you will scare females away. If, on the other hand, you feel as a worthy, and sensual male, women will feel attracted to you. Your feelings affect the way in which you move, and behave, and as a result how women perceive you.

So, you don’t need to learn cheesy pickup lines, or mind tricks, to attract gorgeous females. You need to work on your self-esteem, and on your feelings. Remember, this knowledge is something you carry in your blood, not on your head. Unless you internalize it, and feel it on every pore of your body, you won’t get results.

If you want to know the biggest secret women are hiding about what turns them on, watch this presentation from my friend  Josh Pellicer.

There are some timeless pieces of wisdom that will never change, and can help you become a chick-magnet. But, if you just look at them from the surface, you won’t get any results. You must go beyond a purely mental exercise. You need to feel them, and let them shape your personality.

Don’t think of these rules, live from them.

Here is a point that maybe only one guy in a million understands. Knowledge is something you carry on your blood, not on your head. Change your feelings and beliefs and you will become the guy women die for: an Alpha Male.

So, let these ideas shape your life…

 

#1. – Respect

Alpha males give and demand respect from others. They demand respect from their business, friend, and love partners. They even give, and demand, respect from their enemies.

You can’t read a book about self-esteem and become the confident man who is respected by everyone. Just like you can’t read a book about swimming techniques and become a master swimmer. It comes from experience. You need to dive in, and feel the water.

People will only feel respect for you, if you feel respect for yourself. But this feeling doesn’t come naturally. You need to earn it. How? You need to workout regularly. This is not my opinion; it’s a proven fact. Regular exercise has a positive impact on people’s self-esteem.

Second, use the power of clothes. It’s a proven fact that learning the rules of style will implant the right type of ideas to your subconscious mind. And once your subconscious accepts and idea as true it becomes a reality.

Finally, research has demonstrated that the most successful people in the world watch less than an hour of T.V. per day. Take action and fight for your dreams, don’t spend all your day in front of an electronic devise that reminds you of all the things that you don’t have.

Spending a lot of time in front of the T.V. will have a huge impact on your self-esteem, and on your levels of anxiety.

Human beings are social animals. The more you interact with other people the more confidence you will feel. Go out and take action!

 

#2. – You need a fearless attitude

Some guys have a need to control circumstances. But, this feeling comes out of fear, and a lack of self-esteem. Alpha males, on the other hand, understand that although they can’t control events they can control the way in which they react to them.

Ironically, the less need of control you have, the more control you have over circumstances.

To become a chick-magnet you don’t need cheesy lines, or cheap tricks, you just need to display the right type of attributes, and the main one is confidence. Develop a fearless attitude, give and demand respect, and females will see you as a confident male.

Tons of gorgeous girls will become addicted to you, I dare you to prove me wrong!

If you want to know the biggest secret women are hiding about what turns them on, watch this presentation from my friend  Josh Pellicer.