Control is one of the main traits that females look for in a man. They will constantly test your ability to stay in control. If you fail the test, the attraction will die forever.
To keep control, you need to learn how to ignore girls, but in a smart way. Show them you are not available whenever they want. But, don’t take this to far or they will lose interest. In this article I am going to show you the right way to ignore a girl to keep her interested.
#1. – Don’t say yes to every one of her requests
Females are constantly testing guys. They will try to make you work hard for the relationship. But, instead you should make them work for it. Beat them at their own game. Don’t say yes to every one of her requests, and don’t be available every time she wants to be with you.
To keep a girl attracted you need balance in the relation. Every time you give her something she should give you something back. And every time you agree to go on a date you should let her know that your time is valuable.
Sometimes girls will test your ability to stay in control by canceling the date at the last moment. If she does, make her pay for it. Act like you don’t care, and take your time before you agree to go out with her again. You should never ask her out again, she should be the one to take the initiative. If you do this in the right way, I promise she will beg for a second date, and she will never dare to cancel it.
#2. – The wrong time to ignore a girl
Never ignore a girl when she is trying to impress you. This will make her lose interest. If she is working for your attention it means that she likes you. Don’t make the common mistake of playing hard to get when she is showing signs of interest, or she will think that you are unreachable, and the attraction will die.
On the other hand, you are allowed to ignore her when she is making you work hard for her attention, remember she is testing you, and you need to recover the control.
The things we need to work hard to get are the ones we value most in life. Make women work for your attention and they will treasure it like gold.