On May 11th 2007 I suffered a severe accident that almost killed me. This near encounter with death had a drastic impact on my personality. I learned to be present, and to live in the moment.
This shift in my attitude had a positive effect on the way in which I related with women, and if you read this article I am sure you will enjoy the same positive results.
No girl is out of your league as long as you understand…
The first thing you need to understand is that most guys fail with women because they live on autopilot mode most of the time. They don’t know how to be present and, as a result, they are not able to connect with females on a deep level.
Guys who live in their heads lack the observation skills needed to know what does a girl need, and how to give it to her.
Women talk to you all the time through non-verbal channels. They tell you how they are feeling, and they even give you clues on how to win their heart, the only thing you need to do is to be present, and pay attention.
For example, when a girl is interested in you she will lean in close, and her body will be pointed in your direction. If, on the other hand, her arms are crossed, she is sitting back, and her body is pointing away from you; you should work harder to win her attention.
If she shows no signs of interest…
If a girl shows no interest in you, don’t worry. By being present you can get it. Learning to live in the moment will make your body language send strong positive signals to the females you interact with.
They will perceive you as a powerful, strong, and confident male. And, if done correctly, they will also feel sexual tension, which I am sure you know is essential to make any woman feel attracted to you.
The skills needed to succeed with women come from the inside; you can’t fake them. So, instead of wasting your time on learning cheesy pick up lines, magic tricks, or goofy jokes, just learn to live in the moment and enjoy life.
This little shift in your attitude will make any girl you meet feel a deep connection with you, almost instantly. You will be sending the right type of vibe, and you will know how to feel the vibes they send to you.
If you want to know the biggest secret women are hiding about what turns them on, watch this presentation from my friend Josh Pellicer.