There is an old Mexican phrase that my father used to tell me when I was young: “If the rogue knew the advantages that honesty brings, he would be honest out of roguery.”
In other words, you should always be honest, and not because you are a saint but because the advantages that honesty brings to your life.
My father was a half Mexican, half Italian, man who shared his wisdom with others through phrases. And today I want to share his knowledge with you, and show you how a little bit of honesty can turn you into a ladies man.
#1. – Be honest with yourself
Here is a question you need to ask yourself if you want to be a ladies man: Are you happy? When you were a kid you were filled with dreams. Are you still pursuing those dreams, or did you let them die?
A ladies man lives with passion, and in his own terms. If you don’t live the life of your dreams is because you don’t want it hard enough. I know from experience that a man with determination can date any girl he decides, he can earn all the money he wants, and he can find fun and adventure everywhere he goes.
Of course, you will fail many times. But as long as you don’t give up your success is assured. Women can’t resist a man with determination.
You have total control over your life. If you are honest with yourself you will realize that, if you are not happy, you are the only one to blame.
#2. – Be honest with others
Being honest with yourself will transform you into a fearless man. As a general rule, guys are not honest with others out of fear. They are worried about what others think about them, how would others react, or what could they lose if they are open and honest.
You will be amazed about how others perceive you once you develop an honest attitude. Women will melt for you, and men will admire you. You will enjoy the power and influence others dream about.
Just be careful, being honest doesn’t mean being rude. The fact that you have the right to say whatever you want, doesn’t mean you can just say anything. Don’t insult people, don’t antagonize just for fun. You should pick your battles carefully and fight for the things that will help you achieve your dreams. Keep a positive attitude at all times.