I am one of those guys who experienced an extreme shift in their lives after they lived a near-death event. I know, it sounds like a cliché, but it’s true.
On May 11th 2007 I was near a big industrial alcohol container while it exploded. As a result half of my body was injured with third degree burns.
The pain I experienced from the injuries was so intense that I needed morphine shots to release it. But the real problem was my inner pain. A pain no drug could heal. My near-death experience made me realize I was wasting my life.
Like most guys, before my accident, I was living my life on default. I was trapped on a boring job, and I was working my ass off, just to make ends meet. I wasn’t dating the type of women I desired because in my mind I was no special, and I had nothing valuable to offer.
I believed that hot girls only dated rich, handsome, and successful guys, and I was not one of them. Of course, all these limiting beliefs scared girls away from me.
But, something funny happens to those guys who meet death, and make her their friend. They start appreciating life more. They realize that most of those things they complain about are not important. Suddenly big problems become small, and they acquire a fearless attitude. As a result, they become irresistible to females.
Don’t worry, you don’t need to live a near-death experience to acquire this attitude and become a modern-day Casanova. You just need to realize that your days in this world are limited, and you should make the most out of them.
Think about it, all the money in the world can’t buy you a minute of life. Your time is priceless. Don’t trade it for peanuts. Fill your moments with fun, adventure, and excitement.
It doesn’t matter who you are or what is your current situation. You can become a modern-day Casanova almost instantly by this little shift in your attitude: live as if it is the last day of your life (who knows, maybe it is!).
If you don’t experience the results with women you desire it is because of a lack of conviction. Your body language projects what you feel and believe. So, any doubt you may be holding in your mind will affect how people perceive you.
This attitude should come from your heart, you can’t fake it.
If you want to know the biggest secret women are hiding about what turns them on, watch this presentation from my friend Josh Pellicer.