There are some critical rules you must follow in your first date. The first encounter is a very stressful situation, and there is always the risk of doing something wrong. You should use any tool at your disposal to avoid awkward moments and make it flow naturally. Here are some ideas I want you to think about…
#1. – Dress to impress
Most guys don’t pay too much attention to their dress style. Most of what you say doesn’t come out of your mouth, you communicate mainly through non-verbal channels. How you dress will affect how your date perceives you, and the effectiveness of your messages.
Ask yourself: How would I want to be perceived? And then dress accordingly. Learn the rules of style, and use clothes that will help you highlight your assets, and hide your flaws.
How you dress will also have an impact in your emotions. You should create a style that, not only, makes females perceive you as a male with status and power, but also that helps you feel comfortable, and confident.
#2. – Location
Females will see everything through the lens of your first date. So, choose the location wisely. For example, going to a very expensive place will make them believe that you are a big spender. Don’t get them used to luxury unless you are willing to spend a lot of money on the future.
If you choose a cheap place for your first date, your prospect will believe that you are a cheap guy, and your social value, and desirability, will decrease. The best alternative is to go to a mid-range place. Show them that you are not afraid of spending some money, but also that you are not buying your way into their heart.
#3. – Tone
You should be careful with the tone you set on your first date, cause it will have an impact on the rest of the relation. Don’t act too formal, cause your prospect will perceive you as a boring guy. But also, don’t behave like a goofy clown cause you will fall into the friend zone very fast.
First dates should be fun and relaxing. Eliminate, as much as possible, the stress of an already stressful situation. Keep a playful mood at all times, and don’t think about the outcome. Live in the moment.
The number one reason first dates fail is because of stress. Relax and enjoy the moment and your success is guaranteed.
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