Do you date the type of girls that you want, or just the ones that you believe you deserve? Let me tell you something, you can have any girl you desire, you don’t need to settle for less; just change your mindset.
I honestly know that, it doesn’t matter who you are, or what are your current circumstances, just by making some minor adjustments in your brain you will be able to date the most gorgeous girls in the world.
First, be the qualifier not the qualified
When you see a hot girl and you think, “I hope she likes me.” You are letting her decide what is your social value. You are giving your power away. Hot females are attracted to leaders, to alpha males. And those guys don’t qualify themselves to other people.
So, every time you are around hot females, assume that they are already attracted to you. This will make all the difference in the world.
Decide what are the qualities that you want to display, and assume that you have them. Remember, when assuming, feeling is the secret. If you keep things at a thought level they won’t work.
There are a lot of techniques that can help you internalize feelings, and change your mindset. Many guys use affirmations, visualizations, positive self-talk, etc. Personally I cheat my mind. I find, real life, evidence of the attributes that I want to acquire and tell a white lie to my mind.
For example, if you are a short guy, and your height is an issue for you, look for short guys who date top models and convince yourself that you can do the same thing. Michael J. Fox is 5’4″ and he was able to date the most gorgeous girls. Your mind won’t be able to argue with that, after all it’s a fact.
Which came first the chicken or the egg
Your feelings and believes affect your body language, and the way that the world perceives you. But, your body language will also affect your feelings and believes. In other words, if you want to feel like a confident man, fake it till you make it.
Practice in front of the mirror. Change your posture and move slowly. Look yourself straight into your eyes. At first, you will notice that your movements look fake, and rehearsed, but with practice your mindset will change, and you will feel confidence.
It’s also a good idea to look for guys that display the attributes that we want to acquire, and try to move and behave like them. Again, practice in front of the mirror. By moving like a natural seducer you will develop the mindset that will help you attract any girl you desire.