It doesn’t matter if you were not blessed by nature, if you want, you can become an attractive dude. Being attractive is a choice, and it has nothing to do with looks. Think about it, have you ever seen a very good-looking guy who is alone all the time? He doesn’t know how to attract females; he is not attractive.
On the other hand, there are some ugly dudes that date the most gorgeous girls in the world. So, with this evidence, we can conclude that you don’t need to be a good-looking guy to become a chick-magnet.
Now you know you don’t need good-looks to get any girl you desire. But, what do you need? I want to share a two-step technique that will help you become more attractive than you ever thought possible, almost instantly…
Show interest, in a no needy way
Research has demonstrated that people are attracted to people who feels attraction for them. The secret here is to show your interest without sending any signs of need for approval. You need an attitude that says: “I like you”, instead of: “I need you”.
If females perceive you as a needy guy, your social value will go down. So, never seek for their approval. Let them know that you like them with a compliment, but don’t wait for their reactions. For example, I always use this line with cute waitresses: “Hello, you are cute”, and without waiting for her response I say: “could you please bring me some tequila?”
If you wait for her response you are qualifying yourself to her. If you don’t wait for her approval, she will have to qualify herself to you, it’s as simple as that.
With this two-step process, first showing interest, and then showing high value by demonstrating that you don’t care if she likes you back, females will automatically perceive you as an attractive male.
You need practice to get the right attitude, and send the right signals through body language. Give random compliments to everyone that you meet on the street. And keep a playful mood at all times. Show them that you are a friendly and approachable guy, but if they don’t like you back you don’t mind.
Remember, confidence is a muscle. Get used to interact with people and your levels of attractiveness will increase a lot. Trust me, you won’t know what to do with all the gorgeous girls you will attract.