Many guys don’t know how to flirt with women; they are shy. For others approaching women is the easy part. The problem starts when they want to turn a regular, friendly, conversation into a sexy, and playful, interaction. I want to share some basic principles that will help you flirt with women any time, any place, anywhere…
It all comes down to attitude.
When all is said and done, the only thing you need to remember, if you want women to perceive you as a sexy man, is that you need to have the right attitude. When the flirt app in your brain is activated, you will always know what to say, and how to say it. Every word that comes out of your mouth will make women melt over you.
Never worry about what to say to flirt with women. Your attitude is more important; it’s the key that will turn you into a Casanova. Think about it, why do you think some pickup lines work beautifully with some guys and fail miserably with others? It’s not what you say that matters; it’s how you say it.
You need to warm up.
Your flirt software needs to warm up before it reaches its full potential. You need to be on seduction-mode before you even leave your house. That way you will be prepared whenever you interact with women. Your positive energy builds up during the day.
Do you believe that if you try to get the right attitude 5 minutes before you interact with women you will get the same results as a guy that has been reaching for that feeling all day long? Imagine the rewards after one week, or one month, of positive energy.
Stop negative self-talk, and never think of the outcome.
Most women can read guys like a book. Remember, 80% of what you say doesn’t come out of your mouth. If you don’t convince yourself that you are a confident, sexy, and playful man, ladies won’t believe you are one.
Stop the negative self-talk. You need to understand, that everything you are saying to yourself is the same thing you are saying to women. If you say: “I am a loser”. You are sabotaging yourself.
Finally, thinking of possible outcomes will make you very anxious, and that will show in your body language. As a general rule, guys don’t think positively when they think about outcomes. Unless you are the king of positive thought, don’t think about the future. You will be losing even before you start.
Remember, the past is gone and the future is unknown. You can only act in the present.