Most guys don’t know how to flirt with girls effectively. Many times they are very aggressive and scare them away. You need to learn to seduce women in subtle ways. I want to share some basic principles that will give you the edge you have been looking for.
The first thing you need to understand is…
Creating tension with women is a good thing. But, you need to create the right type of tension. If women perceive you as a threat they won’t be attracted to you, they will feel uncomfortable and they will hate your company.
You need to create sexual tension, but you have to do it in a natural way. Make girls enjoy your company, and leave them wanting more.
How do you create tension?
What you say is not as important as how you say it. Remember, 80% of what you say doesn’t come out of your mouth. If you don’t get anything from this article but this, I will feel satisfied: “attitude is what separates naturals from the rest.”
Your attitude will affect your body language, and as a result, the signals that you send to females. Convince yourself that you are a sexy an attractive male, and your body will make everything you say sound sexy.
Test the waters
Touching is an important part of the flirting game. Without touching there will be no sexual tension. Of course, you have to know what you are doing, if you don’t want to scare females away. You need to learn to read females’ body language. When her body language tells you, she feels comfortable around you, start testing the waters. Touch her in subtle ways.
For example, if she has a watch grab her hand and say: “what time is it?” You need to observe her reactions and increase, or decrease, the touching accordingly. Let her lead you.
Remember, first you need to make her feel comfortable around you, and then you want to create sexual tension, in that order. If you create tension before she feels comfortable with you, you will scare her away. And please, never forget to keep a playful mood.
Your eyes are your secret weapons
Let your eyes talk for you. Practice in front of the mirror and develop a warm and sexy gaze. When you are talking to women look them directly in their eyes. Just please, remember to blink once in a while and make sure you don’t stare at them like a psycho.