Let me remind you something, I am sure, you already know, no matter what your current situation is, you have everything you need, right now, right were you are, to attract the most gorgeous girls in the world.
If you can’t attract the girl of your dreams it’s probably because you don’t believe in yourself, as a result you exude desperation, which is the biggest turn-off for females.
It’s easier to attract hot girls when you don’t need them. You have to understand that there are literally millions of hot girls seeking for what you, and only you, can offer. Remove the idea of scarcity out of your mind, and attracting gorgeous girls will be your natural way of life.
Test yourself to find out how desperate you are…
#1. – How comfortable are you with being alone?
Ironically, the more comfortable you are with being alone, the more company you will have. Are you one of those dudes that desperately try to fill the gap, every time you come out of a relationship? Can you enjoy life all by yourself? Don’t take this lightly cause, if you don’t appreciate your own company nobody will.
#2. – Do you perceive yourself as a male of value?
Guys with low self-esteem exude desperation. They believe that if their girlfriend leaves them, they won’t be able to get another woman in their lives. They try to keep the attention of every female that shows interest in them because, in their mind, she might be the only one.
The value you give to yourself will be the same value others give to you. You need to feel comfortable in your own skin, because it will show on your body language, and it will affect how others perceive you.
#3. – Do you believe that she is the one?
The more you care for a girl, the more you need to be willing to lose her. Remember, your body language is affected by your feelings and beliefs. Feeling fear will make you look desperate. If she is really the one, and you don’t want to lose her, you should display an attitude that says, “I enjoy your company”, instead of, “I need your company”.
#4. – Do you have a life?
If you want females of worth in your life, you need to live a life of worth. If a woman becomes your whole world, you will become a desperate guy. Fill your life with rewarding, and exciting, activities. Give the ladies some space so they can miss you. Guys who live with passion will never feel desperation.
You don’t need hot women to enjoy life, although it would be fun. Internalize this feeling, and hot females will be attracted to you like bees to honey.