I know a very ugly guy, he is an old friend of mine, and I consider him to be my mentor. He dates the most gorgeous girls in the world; even my good-looking friends look up to him. He learned, almost by accident, what makes a man attractive to females. Today I want to share what I learned from him.
First… the evolution
There is a basic evolutionary principle involved in the attraction game. Females are hardwired to mate with strong genes. Their survival instincts push them to reproduce with the male that give their offspring the best chances of subsistence.
If you display the right type of attributes women will assume your genes are the strongest, and automatically you will become their first mating choice, even over better-looking guys.
But what if a girl doesn’t want to have children?
It doesn’t matter. This information is hardwired in their brain. Her survival instinct will make her attracted to the same type of males, as females with the stronger maternal instinct.
So, what are the traits and how do you display them?
First, you need a strong sexual presence. Not even the best-looking guys in the world, or the richest, will attract women unless they are able to create sexual tension around them. The effective projection of sexual messages comes from within. In other words, what you feel, about yourself, will affect what women feel about you.
Working-out regularly will help you improve your sexual presence. Exercise will help you produce endorphins, which will boost your mood, your confidence, and your sexual presence. Not to mention your health.
Use a nice fragrance. The idea that scents trigger some sexual responses in females is not new. For years scientists have been curious about the impact the scents have on the courtship rituals of several species.
Science has proven that females’ limbic brain is linked to their sense of smell. In other words, using a nice fragrance will help you create sexual tension with women.
Even when you are not around, when they smell a fragrance similar to the one you use they will think about you, and some sexual responses will be triggered. So, your strong sexual presence will be felt even if you are not present.
Confidence is another important trait you need to display. Confidence show women that you are a good provider, and if needed an even better protector. This will make them assume that your genes are strong, and that their offspring’s survival is assured.
You can also benefit here from the power of scent. Believe it or not using a nice fragrance will, not only, help you create a sexual presence, it will also improve your confidence. Science has demonstrated that our sense of smell is tied to our emotions. So, just by using the right fragrance you will feel confidence.
Again, just as with scent working out regularly will help you improve your confidence. And display the type of attributes that make women crazy.
Is there more to it than that? Of course there is! I encourage you to learn everything you can about body language. But you need to remember that the effective use of non-verbal tools comes from within. Just by changing your feelings you will be able to attract any girl.