Monthly Archives: August 2013

You see a gorgeous girl in the bar, the top model type, you want to approach her, and start a conversation, but you don’t think you have a chance. Dating gorgeous females is easy if you know what you are doing.

I am a professional photographer, and from hanging out with hot models everyday I learned the patterns in the successes, and failures, of men with females. Trust me, it has nothing to do with money, or looks.

I have seen ugly, broke, dudes dating the most gorgeous girls in the world. If other guys can do it, why can’t you?

I want to share some techniques that will give you the choice with women others dream about. The techniques I am going to share don’t require any hard work. Just apply and enjoy. But first you need to understand…

 

You need to stand out

Hot females enjoy a rich, and constant, supply of men. Guys compete with each other for the attention of a gorgeous woman. Therefore, unless you learn to standout, and distinguish yourself from the crowd, your chances of dating a top model will be very slim.

 

Feeling is the secret

Since 80% of what you say doesn’t come out of your mouth you need to learn how to send the messages that will help you stand out, and attract hot females, through non-verbal channels.

When it comes to body language feeling is the secret. The effective use of non-verbal tools comes from within. Your feelings and beliefs affect your body language, and the messages that you send to women.

 

Become an alpha male, almost instantly

We know that our feelings influence our body language. So, now how do we affect our feelings so we can display the right attributes?

First, use a nice fragrance. Believe it or not, a nice fragrance will have an impact on your emotions. According to Psychologist Rachel Herz: “Our sense of smell is integrally tied to our emotions, our memories, our behaviors.” That means that you can improve your mood by finding the right fragrance.

As a bonus, women’s sense of smell is connected to their limbic brain so you can use the power of scent to turn women on.

 

Dress to kill

Just like with scent, making an effort to dress well will change your feelings and, as a result, the signals that you send through body language. This is a fast and easy way to change how the world perceives you, and how they react to your messages.

If you don’t believe me you can try a little experiment. Visit a luxury store (I won’t mention brands) and try a black suit. Then go to a discount store and try a cheap black suit. Notice how what you are wearing affects your feelings. Stand in front of a mirror and try to analyze how your body language changes.

This may sound like very basic stuff, but it works. I date hot models all the time, and you will too, once you boost your feelings and display the right attributes.

So, now I’d like to invite you to change the way you attract women forever, my friend George Lazar will help you improve your style and turn you into a chick magnet very fast.

Anxiety is a mechanism that helps animals survive. Most species will only feel anxious when they are facing danger, but when the threat disappears the anxiety will also disappear.

Human beings are the only ones that can feel anxiety even in the absence of a real threat. For example, most guys can’t control their minds and suffer from approach anxiety. They feel the stress before the even engage in the interaction; as a result they don’t enjoy the success with females that they crave for.

I want to share some techniques that will help you overcome this issue, and change your life forever.

 

First, fight the physical symptoms

There are some physical symptoms associated with approach anxiety: high pulse, shortness of breath, nausea, shaking, etc. If you make them go, you will trick your subconscious mind into believing that you are comfortable and confident. Although it sounds difficult, there are some fast and easy ways to achieve this.

First, regular exercise can help you relax. You don’t need to train for a marathon, just activate your body and it will produce endorphins. This will help because the next time you suffer from an anxiety episode the physical symptoms will be less intense.

Second, tense your body as hard as you can and then release. This is a contrast technique that will help you relax almost instantly. If you use this technique regularly the benefits will multiply because you are training your subconscious mind to feel relaxed by default.

 

Improve your inner game

Approach anxiety is caused by the insecurities that live in your subconscious mind. Ideas are implanted in the subconscious by feeling and repetition. We can conclude that if you suffer from severe episodes of anxiety it’s because you have been feeding your mind with negative ideas, feelingly, for a very long time.

Your subconscious mind doesn’t care if an idea is real or imaginary. It will respond to any suggestion made by you. So, instead of sabotaging yourself, use this power to create the life that you want.

Every night, before you go to bed, relive the positive events of the day to reinforce your confidence. Then change the negative ones, and relive them as you wanted them to go, this will remove their negative impact in your subconscious.

Remember, when working on your inner game, feeling is the secret. If you don’t engage your feelings in this exercise, you won’t get the desired results. You can use real life feedback to help you believe the truth of the ideas you want to implant.

For example, if you are a short guy, and your height is an issue for you, look for short guys who date top models and convince yourself that you can do the same thing. Michael J. Fox is 5’4″ and he was able to date the most gorgeous girls. This will help you feel that the idea is true, and engrave it in your subconscious.

Don’t let negative self-talk rule your life. Kill your inner bully and live by choice.

If you want to know the biggest secret women are hiding about what turns them on, watch this presentation from my friend  Josh Pellicer.

Do you date the type of girls that you want, or just the ones that you believe you deserve? Let me tell you something, you can have any girl you desire, you don’t need to settle for less; just change your mindset.

I honestly know that, it doesn’t matter who you are, or what are your current circumstances, just by making some minor adjustments in your brain you will be able to date the most gorgeous girls in the world.

 

First, be the qualifier not the qualified

When you see a hot girl and you think, “I hope she likes me.” You are letting her decide what is your social value. You are giving your power away. Hot females are attracted to leaders, to alpha males. And those guys don’t qualify themselves to other people.

So, every time you are around hot females, assume that they are already attracted to you. This will make all the difference in the world.

 

Then…

Decide what are the qualities that you want to display, and assume that you have them. Remember, when assuming, feeling is the secret. If you keep things at a thought level they won’t work.

There are a lot of techniques that can help you internalize feelings, and change your mindset. Many guys use affirmations, visualizations, positive self-talk, etc. Personally I cheat my mind. I find, real life, evidence of the attributes that I want to acquire and tell a white lie to my mind.

For example, if you are a short guy, and your height is an issue for you, look for short guys who date top models and convince yourself that you can do the same thing. Michael J. Fox is 5’4″ and he was able to date the most gorgeous girls. Your mind won’t be able to argue with that, after all it’s a fact.

 

Which came first the chicken or the egg

Your feelings and believes affect your body language, and the way that the world perceives you. But, your body language will also affect your feelings and believes. In other words, if you want to feel like a confident man, fake it till you make it.

Practice in front of the mirror. Change your posture and move slowly. Look yourself straight into your eyes. At first, you will notice that your movements look fake, and rehearsed, but with practice your mindset will change, and you will feel confidence.

It’s also a good idea to look for guys that display the attributes that we want to acquire, and try to move and behave like them. Again, practice in front of the mirror. By moving like a natural seducer you will develop the mindset that will help you attract any girl you desire.

If you want to know the biggest secret women are hiding about what turns them on, watch this presentation from my friend  Josh Pellicer.

Using body language to attract gorgeous girls is easy when you learn one of the best-kept secrets in the communications arena, which is “vibe projection.” In fact, the term “body language” and “vibe projection” could be used interchangeably since they are basically the same thing.

The effective use of non-verbal tools comes from within. If you want your body to send the right type of messages you need to think in terms of vibe, rather than just trying to learn some secret posture or movement that will make women crazy for you.

Most guys believe that they can fake body language easily. But the truth is, that unless you internalize the feelings of the attributes that you want to display, females won’t perceive you the way you want them to.

So, let’s say that you want women to perceive you as a confident man. Well, you need to feel like a confident man. Although it sounds difficult, there are some fast and easy ways to achieve this.

All you have to do when you want to feel confidence is use a nice fragrance. Believe it or not, a nice fragrance will affect your emotions. According to Psychologist Rachel Herz: “Our sense of smell is integrally tied to our emotions, our memories, our behaviors.” So, just by finding the right scent your non-verbal messages will be 100% more effective.

 

Dress to impress

Just like with scent, making an effort to dress well will change your feelings and, as a result, the signals that you send through body language. This is a fast and easy way to change how the world perceives you, and how they react to your messages.

You see, must guys approach body language in the wrong way. They believe that there are secret postures and moves that will help them attract women instantly. And although it’s true that if you learn to move and behave confidently your messages will be more effective, it all comes from within.

Is there more to it than that? Well, yes. I encourage you to learn everything you can about body language. But keep in mind that unless you work on your feelings you will fail miserably.

Learning the ins and outs of body language is indispensable, since 80% of what you say doesn’t come out of your mouth. Unless you a understand how to communicate effectively you won’t be able to attract the type of women that you want.

So, now I’d like to invite you to change the way you attract women forever, my friend George Lazar will help you improve your style and turn you into a chick magnet very fast.

I want to share some essential body language secrets that will help you attract women. The secrets I am going to share don’t require any hard work. Just apply the advice I share, and enjoy the results. It’s fast and easy.

 

First…

Use a fine fragrance. Females’ sense of smell is connected with their limbic brain. In other words, your scent can either help you turn women on, or it can scare them away.

Using a fine fragrance is just another way to stand out. Use the power of scent to make women perceive you as a male with status, power, and confidence.

Believe it or not, a nice fragrance will also have an impact on your emotions. According to Psychologist Rachel Herz: “Our sense of smell is integrally tied to our emotions, our memories, our behaviors.” That means that you can improve your mood by finding the right fragrance.

Remember, your body language is a reflection of your feelings and believes. So, a positive shift in your mood will help your body language send the right signals.

 

Dress to impress

Just like with scent, making an effort to dress well will change your feelings and, as a result, the signals that you send through body language. This is a fast and easy way to change how the world perceives you, and how they react to your messages.

If you dress like an average guy, people will perceive you as an average guy. So, you need to create a personal style that helps you stand out. But, you need to do it wisely, in a classy way. Don’t try to dress different just because you want to stand out.

Decide what are the qualities that you want to display, and look for a style that will help you send those messages. An easy place to start is to find a male that display the attributes that you want to have, and to copy his style. But, be careful to look for a male with your same, or similar, physical features or his style may not work for you.

Body language is a communication channel that allows you to send messages non-verbally. Mainly through body postures and facial gestures, but you need to be aware that there are some other elements that complement those messages, like clothes and smell.

Just by looking, and smelling, like a powerful man females will perceive you as a male of value. Not to mention the boost that your feelings will receive. And remember, your body language messages are affected by your feelings.

So, now I’d like to invite you to change the way you attract women forever, my friend George Lazar will help you improve your style and turn you into a chick magnet very fast.

Most guys want to learn how to get over first date anxiety. They want to know how to feel confidence and show their best qualities to their prospective love partner.

Well, confidence is a muscle; you need to work it out. You should learn how to control your feelings. I want to share some secrets that will help you acquire an unshakable confidence…

 

Learn to live in the moment

Anxiety is a tool that helps animals to survive. Most species will only feel anxious when they are facing danger, but when the threat disappears the anxiety will also disappear.

Human beings are the only ones that can feel anxiety even in the absence of a real threat. This is caused by our ability to use our minds to predict possible outcomes.

As a general rule when guys think about future scenarios they think about all the things that can go wrong. Learn to live in the moment and your anxiety levels will disappear.

Every time a negative thought reaches your mind pay attention to your breath and bring your attention back to the present. By living in the present you will, not only, feel confident and in control, you will also learn to enjoy life more.

 

Relax through exercise

A short workout session before your first date can help you relax. You don’t need to train until you reach exhaustion, just activate your body and it will produce endorphins and release the accumulated stress.

 

Tense consciously

When you feel that your anxiety is reaching peaking points, tense your body as hard as you can, and then release. This will help you relax almost instantly. By using this technique constantly you will condition your mind to feel relaxed by default.

 

Lower your expectations

It’s easy to feel anxious when the stakes are high. By expecting too much from a first date you are sabotaging yourself. Keep a playful attitude and have fun. If you don’t care about the outcomes your confidence will increase, and your body language will send the right signals.

First dates are stressful, but unless you learn how to get over first date anxiety you probably won’t get a second chance. Remember, your body language is affected by your feelings and believes. If you don’t feel confidence your body language will send all the wrong signals.

Use positive self-talk and try to feel as the king of the world, this will make all the difference.

If you want to know the biggest secret women are hiding about what turns them on, watch this presentation from my friend  Josh Pellicer.

How do you make a girl wan to kiss you? First, you need to make her feel comfortable around you. And second, you need to create sexual tension with her.

I want to share some secrets that will make that first kiss a pleasurable moment.

 

Vibe and rhythm

In the seduction arena everything is about vibe and rhythm. If you want females to think of you as a possible sexual partner you need to display the right attributes and send the right messages.

Move slowly, with confidence. Speak slowly with a warm and seductive tone. Feel like a sensual guy so you can display the right type of attributes, through your body language. Remember, your body language is affected by your feelings and beliefs.

 

Create comfort and sexual tension

Many guys make the mistake of going for the kiss before they have touched a girl. Through touch you will be able to read a girl. You will notice if she feels comfortable around you, and if she is attracted to you.

Touching a girl will also create the sexual tension needed to make her want to kiss you.

Without previous touching, even if she doesn’t reject you, the impact of the kiss will decrease significantly. On the other hand, if you kiss her after touch, she will be sexually aroused and the results will be more than positive.

 

The power of your eyes

Look at a girl directly into her eyes and she will experience some reactions in her body that will make her believe that she is already in love with you. If she looks at your mouth when she breaks eye contact, she is inviting you to kiss her.

As a general rule, I never go for the kiss. I invite her back by observing her mouth and then I lean forward 90% of the way, and let her take that other 10%.

 

Don’t rush things

For females the first kiss is a special thing. It helps them decide if a guy is boyfriend material or not, so they take their time.

They will see everything through the lens of that first kiss, so you better make it a good one.

Don’t rush things. Learn to read women to know when they are ready to be kissed, and if they are not, keep building comfort and sexual tension.

If you kiss a girl in the right moment and in the right way she will become addicted to your lips.

If you want to know the biggest secret women are hiding about what turns them on, watch this presentation from my friend  Josh Pellicer.

Every guy impresses women instantly. The secret is to impress them in a positive way. We want them to think of us as dating material, from the moment they notice us for the first time.

Never leave your house until you are prepared to show your best version. I want to share some secrets that will help you become that guy girls fantasize with.

 

First…

It’s hard to show your best version when you hate life. If you are trapped in the rat race, and hate your job, your facial expressions, and your body language will show your dissatisfaction. Your job is to fight boredom.

Learn to enjoy life. Find exciting and fulfilling activities and your vibe will change. Females, believe it or not, are attracted to your vibe, not to your looks. If you want women of worth in your life you need to live a life of worth.

Spend your free time following your passion, who knows, maybe one day you will be able to make a living out of it. My passion is photography, and now it’s how I make my living, and it all started as a hobby. I date a lot of gorgeous girls, just because they see how much I enjoy life.

 

Be clean and well-groomed at all times

You never know when, or where, you are going to meet the love of your life. So, you need to be prepared at all times. Never leave your house unless you are dressed to kill, and well-groomed. Of course, that doesn’t mean you need to wear a black suit to the grocery store, but you need to wear clothes that help you stand out, in a good way.

 

Move slowly and live in the moment

Alpha males live in the moment. They know how to enjoy the present, and that shows in their body language. By living in the moment, and moving slowly, you will look like a confident man. Women will think that you are in control.

Remember, females look for a man who can be a great provider and a good protector. By displaying control you will make them believe that you are that man. Nervous and anxious guys don’t impress females in positive ways.

What do you think of yourself? Well, that’s exactly the impression women have of you. If you want to be perceived as an alpha male, feel like an alpha male. Body language is not something you can fake; it comes from within. Your feelings affect how the world perceives you. If you want to impress females in a positive way change your feelings.

So, now I’d like to invite you to change the way you attract women forever, my friend George Lazar will help you improve your style and turn you into a chick magnet very fast.

How do you get a girl interested in you without talking to her? Well, since 80% of what you say doesn’t come out of your mouth attracting women without words is not only possible, but also inevitable.

Believe it or not, females decide if you are boyfriend material, or not, before you even have a chance to open your mouth. Learn the secrets of the art of speaking without words and you will become a chick magnet.

 

Females are hardwired to look for the alpha male

Women are programmed to reproduce with the male that will give their offspring the best chances of survival. As a general rule, that male is the leader of the pack. It’s all a matter of evolution.

If you can display the attributes of the alpha male, women will be attracted to you. As simple as that, I could make this sound more complicated but why?

 

Dress like an alpha male

On modern times people show their status and power through clothes. If you learn to stand out, through clothing, females will perceive you as the leader of the pack.

Next time you are out, try to analyze your feelings about people based on the way they are dressed. And, also, try to analyze how other people react to them based on their style. You will notice that clothes have a bigger impact on the way people perceive you than you have imagined.

So, the fastest, easiest, and most effective way to improve your dating life is simply by changing your clothes. Learn the ins and outs of style. One easy way to achieve this is by finding a male that displays the attributes that you want to display and copying his style.

But be careful, look for a male that has your same, or similar, physical features or you may end up looking like a clown. Just because a style works on some guy in doesn’t mean it will work on you.

 

One final thought…

Confidence is a mindset; it comes from within. By feeling like a confident man you will display the attributes that will make females perceive you as a man of value.

Just by wearing cool clothes your self-esteem will improve a lot.

But, don’t take my word for it. Visit a luxury store (I won’t mention brands) and try a black suit. Then go to a discount store and try a cheap black suit. Notice how what you are wearing affects your feelings.

So, now I’d like to invite you to change the way you attract women forever, my friend George Lazar will help you improve your style and turn you into a chick magnet very fast.

How do you make a girl addicted to you? Well, don’t give her what she wants, give her what she needs. Learn to give her pleasure in small doses, and always leave her wanting more.

Here are some ideas I want you to think about…

 

First, sex is addictive

Sex is addictive. During sexual intercourse people experience the same rush they experience while using some drugs. Most guys are bad in bed. If you learn to stand out, and give the pleasure to women they have never experienced, they will definitely become addicted to you.

Any guy can improve his game in bed. You don’t need any type of super-human stamina or physical attributes to be a sex god. You only need to learn how to press the right buttons in the right way.

The best advice I can give you to improve your sex-game fast is to pace yourself. Take your time. Remember, guys are like light bulbs, and females are like irons, they need more time to heat up.

And, of course, learn everything you can about oral sex. This is the secret weapon that will give you the edge you have been looking for.

 

Create sexual tension

You can create chemical and physical reactions in females even before you have sexual intercourse with them. How? By creating sexual tension. Use the power of touch and sight to make her develop strong feelings for you.

Research has demonstrated that by looking directly into females eyes you will create chemical responses in her body that will make her believe that she is in love with you. And second, remember, if you want to create sexual tension, with a girl, you need to touch her.

 

Use absence to increase desire

When I say give females small doses of pleasure, I don’t mean 15 minutes. I mean give her as much pleasure as you can and then give her some space, so she can miss you.

Learn to use absence in an effective way and she will become obsessed with you. The important thing to remember is that you need to make your presence matter, so your absence will matter too.

To resume, how do you make a girl addicted to you? Stand out; learn how to create chemical and physical responses in her body that will make her subconsciously relate your company with pleasure. Become the drug she wants and needs.

If you want to know the biggest secret women are hiding about what turns them on, watch this presentation from my friend  Josh Pellicer.

Let me share a secret, uncertainty can increase romantic attraction. Understand this basic principle and you will not only be able to attract gorgeous girls, you will make them addicted to you.

This is not my opinion; it’s a proven fact. According to the results of a research published in the Journal of Psychological Science: ” People who create uncertainty about how much they like someone can increase that person’s interest in them.”

Here are the steps you need to take to make any girl obsessed with you…

 

First, show interest

Research demonstrates that people tend to feel attracted to people who likes them; it’s the basic principle of reciprocity. So, yes you need to show interest, but you need to do it in subtle ways.

Never be to open while showing your true feelings. Alpha males are guys that are always in control, and if you appear like a vulnerable human being you will lose the air of mystery and as a consequence desirability.

 

Always send mix signals

Keep a girl guessing and she will become obsessed with you. Females are attracted to guys they are curious about. So, your job is to send mixed signals constantly. Use your body language to send positive and negative messages. You should send signals that say: “I may be interested”. Instead of: “I really like you”.

The harder it is for a girl to figure you out the stronger the feelings she will develop for you.

 

Use absence to your advantage

You should learn how to use absence to make females think about you. Make the moments you are around count, and then alternate with absence to increase the desire. You should always leave the interaction in the peak point; this will make females crave for your company.

 

Learn how to create sexual tension

If you keep a friendly and playful attitude, but at the same time are able to create sexual tension, no girl will be able to resist you. Learn to touch females in subtle ways; this will create comfort, and sexual tension. Then, leave when you realize the tension has reached its peak point. This will increase their uncertainty about your true feelings.

 

One final thought…

Females need to discover something new about you everyday. Never show them all your cards. The minute they believe they have figured you out the challenge will be over and the attraction will be gone forever. Uncertainty can increase romantic attraction, so use this powerful tool to your advantage.

If you want to know the biggest secret women are hiding about what turns them on, watch this presentation from my friend  Josh Pellicer.

You may think that attracting a girl who hates you is impossible, but it’s not. You have an advantage over other guys; think about it, she already has strong feelings for you. How many guys are able to create strong feelings in a woman?

Here are some ideas I want you to think about…

 

Does she actively hate you?

You should be worried if a girl hates you passively. In other words, she ignores you or she is indifferent. But, if a female is active, or aggressive, about her hate for you take it as good news. In the majority of the cases she likes you, even if in some cases, she is not conscious about it.

It’s true what they say; there is only one step between hate and love. If you manage the interactions in a wise way you are going to make her feel madly in love with you. Love that comes from hate is stronger; so don’t take this lightly.

 

How to manage the interactions?

First, ignore her. This is like dynamite for her mind. If you realize that the more you ignore her the more she reacts, you know for sure that she likes you.

Of course you need to be subtle in the way in which you ignore her. Just tell her, through your attitudes, that her attacks don’t affect you. This will help you display the confidence that females find so attractive.

If you show some kind of resentful or hurtful attitude, while you ignore her, it will have the opposite effect.

Second, be a gentleman. Answer her aggressions with friendliness. If she slaps you, show her the other cheek. If you don’t give good reasons, for her to hate you, her mind will blow away. She will realize that deep inside she doesn’t hate you; she only has strong feelings for you.

Finally, improve yourself everyday. By working on yourself, you are eliminating the reasons others may have to hate you. You acknowledge your flaws and you are making an effort to eradicate them. Just be careful, don’t let others tell you what you need to improve.

Attracting a girl who hates you is a rewarding challenge. Think about it, if you are able to date a girl who openly shows hate towards you, no girl will be out of your league. Dare to do mighty things and the sky will be the limit.

If you want to know the biggest secret women are hiding about what turns them on, watch this presentation from my friend  Josh Pellicer.

Cavemen were ugly dudes, and they were able to attract females. Women are hardwired to look for some traits, in males, to decide if they are mating material or not, and believe me, it has nothing to do with looks.

Learn to display the right qualities and, even if you look like Quasimodo’s ugly twin, gorgeous girls will be attracted to you like bees to honey.

 

First, you need to understand…

We tend to believe that looks are as important to females as they are to us, but the truth is, they are not. According to a survey made by The New York Times when it comes to dating “women look for a family oriented man, financial stability, and status.”

Women are programmed, since prehistoric times, to procreate with the male that give their offspring the best chances of survival. If you can show them that you are the guy they will be attracted to you.

 

How do you show them you are that guy?

Women look for two main things in guys: security and supply. If you behave like a confident man, girls will subconsciously assume that you can be a great provider and if needed a good protector.

 

How to display the alpha male qualities

By far, the fastest and easiest way to show status, power and stability is through clothes. Improving your style will also have a huge impact on your self-esteem; you will enjoy the benefits almost instantly.

Learn the rules of fashion and develop a personal style that will help you stand out. By dressing in the right way you will highlight your assets and you will hide your flaws.

Remember, confidence comes from within. If you want to be perceived as a confident man you need to feel like a confident man. It’s amazing how fast your confidence will improve just by changing your clothes. If you want to feel like a king, dress like a king.

Just by improving your style you will get the same results you get after months, or even years, of using positive affirmations.

 

One final thought…

In my experience even good-looking guys don’t feel so handsome when they are around an extremely beautiful woman. Their internal bully talks them down, and they start worrying about their flaws, instead of thinking about their positive features to reinforce their confidence.

Make yourself a favor. Never think of any woman of being extremely hot. Instead, assume that she is already attracted to you. This will make all the difference in the world.

So, now I’d like to invite you to change the way you attract women forever, my friend George Lazar will help you improve your style and turn you into a chick magnet very fast.

Yes, you can attract women naturally. When I say naturally I mean effortlessly. You will feel almost as if you are doing nothing. I want to share 3 surefire strategies that will help you attract women without saying a word.

 

#1. – Smile and look her straight in the eyes

Smiling is the best icebreaker. When you smile to women you are saying a lot of things about yourself without saying a word. First, you are saying that you are a friendly and approachable guy. Second, you are displaying confidence and you are saying that you are comfortable on your own skin.

Research has demonstrated that looking straight into female’s eyes will produce some chemical and physical reactions in their bodies that will make them believe that they have feelings for you. If you develop a warm gaze and combine it with a friendly smile no girl will be able to resist you.

 

#2. – The secret of attraction: touching

Unless you are able to create sexual tension with females you will never leave the friend zone. Touching women will create sexual tension, and will help them feel comfortable around you.

Remember, you need to keep a playful attitude at all times. If you are tense or anxious you will transmit that feeling to females, through touch, and it will make them feel uncomfortable. Relax and start testing the waters in subtle ways. Watch her reactions and respond accordingly, by increasing or decreasing the touching. Never force or rush things.

 

#3. – Open, Face, and Nod

You need to learn how to use your body language effectively. To attract women you need to use positive body language signals. First, open your body, that means don’t cross your legs and arms; stand tall. This will display and inviting attitude and women will subconsciously assume that you are a friendly guy.

Second, face your prospect to show approval. As a general rule, people feel attracted to people who like them. Facing females is a positive body language signal that will let them know that you are interested in a subtle way.

Finally, nodding. When you are talking to a girl nod in approval of what she is saying. This simple act will reinforce her confidence and make her feel comfortable while interacting with you. You don’t need to say anything just listen and nod, letting her know that you are paying attention.

These are simple principle that will help you attract women naturally. Remember, never force things learn to read women and go with the flow.

If you want to know the biggest secret women are hiding about what turns them on, watch this presentation from my friend  Josh Pellicer.

What is the best thing to say to get a girl back? The way in which you proceed after the breakout can help you fix things, and recover the love of your life, or kill the attraction forever. Here are some ideas I want you to think about.

First, you need to understand that females will listen to what you say through your actions, not with words. And if you really want her back here is what you need to say…

 

I’m OK with the breakup

Even if it hurts, if you want your girl back, you need to show her that you are fine with the separation. Believe it or not, this will influence her thoughts, and will make her think about you.

By showing her that you are OK with the separation you are rising your value. If she believes that she can have you back whenever she decides, you lose desirability.

By doing this, you are transferring the feeling of rejection to her. If you need to have her back, you are qualifying yourself to her, if she wants you back she is qualifying herself to you.

 

Tell her: “There is life after you”

You need to live your life, even if it’s without the love of your life. If your girl finds that you are living an exciting and fun life she will want to be part of it.

You should go out and meet new people, this will give you some perspective, and this will raise your market value. If other women are attracted to you, your woman will be attracted to you.

Besides, giving her some space will make her miss you.

 

One final thought…

I know separations are very hurtful. Because of your highly emotional state, you need to be careful and think twice before taking actions. Saying, or doing, the wrong thing at the wrong moment will kill the attraction forever. Never talk to your girl unless you are absolutely sure you are in control of your emotions. And remember, the less you say the better.

Don’t show signs of being hurt. Don’t complaint. You should say: “I agree, we should split”. This will shift the way she thinks and you will recover the power.

The best thing to say to get a girl back is you are a man of value. Say this through your actions. Make her work for the relation. Women are attracted to challenges. The more she needs to invest in the relation, the harder it will be for her to leave you.

If you want to know the biggest secret women are hiding about what turns them on, watch this presentation from my friend  Josh Pellicer.